How do you discern your call?

Pray

Ask God for wisdom, patience, openness, trust, and any other grace you seek. 

Reflect on the call stories told in scripture such as Mary or the disciples.

Listen

Take time for silence everyday. Set your intention to be in the presence of God. Open your heart. Slow down from your busy life and create space within you so God has room to work. Consider centering prayer, adoration, or simply sitting in silence for a set period of time.

Talk with Someone You Trust

It is helpful to talk with a few others who know you well – friends, mentors, a spiritual director. They can help you sort out your doubts and questions and walk this journey with you. What do they see in you? Meet with a vocation director to ask questions and receive guidance throughout the discernment process.

Gather Information

Do research to find out more about religious life and specific communities. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings. What makes you feel alive? Visiting communities may be the best source of information. Spend time with sisters and notice how you feel while you are with them. Where are you drawn? 

Take a Step

There will come a point, after you have done all the steps above, when you need to act. Discernment is one step at a time. Don’t expect to have your whole life planned out. What is the next small step you can take?